Friday, March 27, 2026

11. Revenge with Success

11. Revenge with Success

  • Sometimes, when we are rejected, failed, or insulted, our first instinct is to shout back. We pour out our emotions immediately, argue to defend ourselves, and then we eventually forget about it and move on with a mediocre life.

  • But Legends don't do that. They don't waste their energy on words; they don't forget the insult. They replay that moment in their minds, holding onto that fire and waiting for the right time for revenge.

  • They understand a fundamental rule: 

    • the loudest way to shut your enemies 

      •  Achievement is better than Argument 

      •  The best Revenge is massive success.

11.1) Manoj Bajpayee

  • In the early 1990s in Delhi, Manoj Bajpayee was rejected from the National School of Drama (NSD) three consecutive times. He was devastated and even felt suicidal thoughts

  • Instead sharpened his craft in street theatre and small roles in movies , then big roles.

  • He achieved his "revenge"  years later, the same NSD school  invited him back as a guest of honor to inspire their students.

11.2) Rohit Sharma

  • In 2011, Rohit Sharma  was dropped from  ICC World Cup team, which India went on to win.

  •  He sat at home watching his teammates celebrate  

  • He didn't lash out at the selectors

  • His revenge came in the following 

    • Made 3 double centuries in ODIs 

    • record-breaking 5 centuries in a single WC tournament and 

    • eventually led India to a T20 World Cup victory as Captain in 2024.

11.3) Reid Hastings (Netflix)

  • In 1997, Reid Hastings was a customer of Blockbuster and started a similar video rental business, Netflix.

  • At bad time Hastings offered to sell netflix to Blockbuster  for $50 million But he laughed at the offer,

  •  Hastings got his revenge when Netflix grew into a  giant 

    • while Blockbuster went completely bankrupt.

11.4) Steve Jobs

  • In 1985, Steve Jobs was humiliated and fired from Apple

  • He didn't sit around mourning

    • He started NeXT and Pixar, proving he could build world-class companies without them.

  • In 1997 , after 12 years His  revenge moment came  in 1997 when the same Apple bought Pixar and Appointed Jobs as  as CEO


11.6) Parachute (Marico)

  • 1990s | Mumbai — HUL warned the founder of Marico to sell his brand or be "finished" in the market, but he refused to surrender and built a powerful distribution network.

  • 2006 | India — The revenge was finalized when HUL’s own brand, Nihar, was sold to Marico, making them the undisputed leader in the hair oil industry.

11.7) Kingston Technology

  • 1996 | USAThe founders sold their company for $1500 millions, but the new owners failed to run it and eventually tried to shut it down.

  • 1999 | USA —bought  back for only $400 million (1/3 the price) and turning it back into a global success.

11.8) WhatsApp vs. Facebook

  • 2009 | USABrian Acton  rejected at FB for a job ; instead of being discouraged, he started building his own messaging app.

  • 2014 | Global — Just five years later, Facebook was forced to pay him $19 billion to buy WhatsApp

11.9) Google vs. Excite

  • 1999 | Silicon Valley — Excite rejected to buy Google at $7.5 lakh USD

  • 2004 | Global — with 5 years Google earned billions  while Excite eventually went bankrupt and faded into history.


10. Market Yourself

 

10. Market Yourself

  • Many people have incredible talent, but they sit at home waiting for a phone call that never comes. They believe that if they are good enough, the world will eventually find them—but that is how 98% of people end up with a mediocre life.

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  • If you don't tell the world who you are and what you can do, the world will simply look past you. Marketing yourself is the bridge between being a "hidden talent" and becoming a household name.


10.1) Sayaji Shinde

  •  Instead of waiting for a casting call /ad /  agent to notice him, he took a massive gamble and paid for a full-page newspaper ad showing his most intense acting expressions.

  • That bold move caught the eye of Manoj Bajpayee, who was so impressed by the "marketing" that he introduced him to director Ram Gopal Varma, launching his career for his role in Shool.

10.2) Kader Khan

  • Instead of going to studios as film story writer

  • He arranged a drama and made sure the entire Mumbai film industry was invited to see his work live.

  • The strategy worked perfectly; the legendary Dilip Kumar watched the play,  saw the story writing  and hired him immediately for his next big film.

10.3)  Maggi Promotion

  •  Instead of marketing "noodles," they marketed a "solution"—the famous "2-Minute" promise for busy mothers and hungry kids.

  • By marketing a specific benefit (speed) rather than just a product, they created a massive "instant" market that didn't exist before and became a national favorite.


8. Create Opportunities

 

8. Create Opportunities

  • Sometimes we stand on the road and say the roads are closed, that there are no acting opportunities for talented people. We sit at home and complain that there are no job calls for right candidates.

  • Some people think ahead and say the roads were always closed for newcomers and beginners, so let me do something and create my own opportunities.

  • If the door doesn't open, build your own door. If the road is blocked, pave your own path.


8.1) Vin Diesel

  • In the early 1990s in New York, Vin Diesel was struggling to find acting work  

  • So he directed, and starred in a short film called Multi-Facial in 1995.

  • Steven Spielberg saw that film and offered a role in Saving Private Ryan.

  • Which started his career in hollywood

8.2) Dev Anand

  • When Dev Anand started in Mumbai, he faced many rejections so started own production house, Navketan Films, in 1949.

  • By becoming a producer, acted in number of movies

8.3) Balaji Wafers

  • In 1974 in Rajkot, the Virani brothers were working in a canteen  .

  •  created a home-based opportunity by making potato wafers in a small shed.

  • What started as a tiny home-grown business grew into a multi-crore snack empire that competes with global giants today.

8.4) Sylvester Stallone

  • In 1975, Stallone was a struggling actor in New York 

  • He wrote the screenplay for Rocky in just three days and refused to sell it unless he was allowed to play the lead role.

  • By creating the opportunity himself, he transformed into a global superstar and an Oscar winner.


7. Always a Second Door

 

7. Always a Second Door

  • Sometimes, no matter how much we try to get an offer in our primary field of interest, we may not be able to crack it. In such cases, make a gamble and try to get an opportunity through another door.

  • Several superstars have proved this as a good strategy for success. If the front door is locked, find a side door or a back door to reach the same destination.


7.1) Vicky Kaushal

  • Although he was a trained engineer in Mumbai, he wanted to be an actor but struggled to find leading roles in his early years.

  • He took the "second door" by working as an assistant director and performing in small theatre groups until his acting skill was finally recognized in 2015.

7.2) Taapsee Pannu

  • She entered the film industry trying to succeed with typical "glamour roles," but she failed to make a lasting impact for a few years.

  • She then took the other door by choosing intense, performance-oriented roles in films like Pink (2016), which established her as a powerful lead actress.

7.3) Paan Singh Tomar & Milkha Singh

  • Both these legends joined the Indian Military simply because they needed a job and didn't know what to do with their lives.

  • While in the army, they took the "sports door" for success; Tomar became a steeplechase champion and Milkha Singh became the "Flying Sikh" at the 1958 Commonwealth Games.

7.4) Steve Smith

  • When he first started, there was no place for him in the Australian team as a specialist batsman because the lineup was full.

  • He took the other door in 2010 by presenting himself as a leg-spinner who could bat; once inside the team, he proved he was one of the greatest batsmen in the world.

7.5) Yuzvendra Chahal

  • He was a brilliant chess player representing India, but he lacked the heavy financial backing and sponsors needed for constant international travels.

  • He decided to take the other door by switching his full focus to cricket as a leg-spinner, eventually becoming India's leading wicket-taker in T20 internationals.

7.6) Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson

  • His dream was to be a professional football player, but after being cut from the league in 1995 with only seven dollars in his pocket, that door closed.

  • He took the second door into professional wrestling and later took a third door into acting, becoming the highest-paid star in Hollywood.


11. Revenge with Success

11. Revenge with Success Sometimes, when we are rejected, failed, or insulted, our first instinct is to shout back. We pour out our emotions...